1) Right Mindset

• Think of relationships as a “team”—if one wins, everyone wins.
• Mistakes happen; correction shows maturity.
• Avoid comparisons, appreciate instead; think before criticizing.

2) Daily Small Habits

1. Send a simple good morning/night message or call.
2. Say “thank you” at least once—even for small help.
3. Spend 5–10 minutes listening without distractions.
4. Ask “How was your day?”
5. Offer small help—notes, shopping, tasks, reminders.

3) Communication Strategy (Listen—Validate—Respond)

• Listen: Don’t interrupt; let them finish.
• Validate: “I understand how you feel.”
• Respond: Advice if they want, empathy if they don’t.
• Use “I” statements: Instead of “You’re wrong,” say “I felt hurt because…”
• Discuss calmly—not in anger, but when you’re both relaxed.

4) Steps to Handle Conflicts

1. Take a break: 20–30 minutes to cool down.
2. Focus on the issue, not blame.
3. Speak one at a time; the other listens or takes notes.
4. List possible solutions; choose what works for both.
5. End with apology and commitment: “I’ll try not to repeat this.”

5) Boundaries & Respect

• Respect personal time and work/study schedules.
• Keep privacy—don’t share their matters without permission.
• Stay polite even with differences in religion/politics.
• Avoid financial pressure—sincerity matters more than expensive gifts.

6) Digital Etiquette

• If you can’t reply right away, send a short note—“Was busy, talk now?”
• Ask before sharing personal photos or chats.
• Avoid sarcasm or insults in groups.
• Message before calling to check availability.

7) Shared Activities

• Family/friends movie night, board games, book club.
• Projects together—cooking, gardening, trip planning, savings challenge.
• Volunteering—blood donation, cleanup drives, tree planting.
• Health challenges—daily walk/exercise updates.

8) Message Templates (Copy & Edit)

Gratitude

“Thanks [Name], your help with [task] really made my day easier. I truly appreciate your support.”

Apology

“[Name], I realize my words hurt you today. I’m sorry. Next time, I’ll [specific action].”

Setting Boundaries

“I need my [time/task] for focus. Please avoid calling then. I’ll reach out afterward.”

Checking In

“Hey [Name], how’s your day going? I’m here if you need me.”

9) Weekly/Monthly Checklist

• Weekly: one quality time—tea chat or deep phone talk.
• Monthly: one shared activity—cooking, trip, or game.
• One “thank you” message and one “feedback” conversation.
• Remember occasions—birthdays, results, jobs, achievements.

10) Do’s & Don’ts (Table)